Tricky business – culture clashes

Welcome . . .

Why we are a tribe – we need to be supporting each other . .

Start – the middle of the body is the womb.
2.00 – Cause of illness? Not bugs. . .Homeostasis is needed.
3.00 – Tribal- all knew hat to do to live.
6.00 – Womens’ ways of knowing The Pink Kit
8.00 – Josie’s gift – I discovered birthing workers do not know about the Baby Gate. .
10.45 – Blood bath – easily fixed. TOOLS for safe births – all cultures had. Do watch – also get the Fire Heart book. (Miss Beatrice)

12.30 – why we need to get a wriggle on . .
14.00 – Peace’s (GV) story (Non Hodkinson’ lymphoma – as Jane)
20.20 – She said ‘We have something you don’t have ‘ – THAT WAS HER DISQUALIFIER ..
IS she going to do the work needed – or hand over (Yes she will).
24.00some are more equal than others (Animal Farm).
26.00 – What to do? Undo WHY it is there. .
28.30 – Who is helping? What is ‘help’? We need likely to still sit this out.
29.30 – What is healing? What do we wish to let go?
31.00 – BOUNDARIES – this brings this up .. SEE THIS FIRST
35.30 – Conditionality – or safety?
37.20 – WDCD is why we do this – intact bonding p195 What happens if something goes wrong? p160. What cost the price of a ‘safe’ delivery.
39.00 – Sheet on P.O. We all must teach this – free STUCK . .
41.30 – Ina May Gaskin Spiritual Midwifey – what stops free passage out? What blocks mum emotionally – I used Bach flower remedies . .
43.00Energy Follows Thought – what is in her head? Must embody this – not through the brain . .
44.00 – The ‘T’s again – temptation tension, temperature, torson, trauma. toxins . . .
45.00 – Flows must flow . .. DAMP/SHOCK /fear etc . .
46.00 – Kelly need to tell us. .’bad’ feedback . .
THIS IS why we do it this way, esp all the qualifiers . .

Hence: This is what happened when someone was not qualified – and the ‘little girl’ aspect of one care giver was triggered. People are people – that is my line these days – who knows what they will do when asked to step up? We know ourselves go in and out of clarity.

47.00 – We are NOT our best critics . .
49.00 – We are in danger . . .
52.00 – A gift . . .

54.00 – Food is Medicine – not allowed to use that title . .
Flu jabs and the ‘immuno-compromised – WE are the health enhancers . . .and the medicos . .are out of their scope of practice –
they have no idea . . .
57.40 – Duncan would say ‘so what?’ – we are too wanting to be liked. . NOT OUR JOB
1.00.00 – What the GW is and is not. .
1.02.00 – What is so special about YOU . . .
We all need to write that – so we sit up front and those who can cope – or not . . why YOU reading this most do this exercise. .
1.04.30 – Undo what it means to you .as you do not want to go through this again . .
1.05.00 – My story of boundaries breached . .
1.08.20 – NEED to redefine the working space . .
1.10.00 – Self Discovery – MUST undo why you ‘need’ to have them like you/why you MUST micro manage. .
1.11.40 – Redo the ‘what is so special about me’ and THEN change what is on your info – YOU are desperate . . I am . .
1.15.00 – The form – what is the problem?
1.15.30 – Kelly – has to clear all the issues that came up – or it will happen again . .
1.17.00 – What to do to undo what is happening .

MUST NOT HAVE A DESIRED OUTCOME . .

She is NOT you looking for help – and she has to work out what she is prepared to let go . .
Not ready yet.

Italisiced is her content

In(Kelly) red is some of the contents of the email from person who choose to not go down the path the health care worker suggested.
Non recipient of care also requested no further input/right of reply from who this is addressed to.  

Thank you for sending this through, however I will not be coming back for a follow-up appointment. My experience with your initial consult was the opposite of every other initial medical and alternative medicine consultation I have had.

You were actually address the LEFT hand side of the page . .
Why it was happening and what next? FIX IT for good.  .
This is why I have done up ‘qualifiers’. R.I.C.E.

R.I.C.E.

I did not feel listened to but instead felt like I was being given a lecture on points of health and wellbeing that you disagree with.

Why was she coming to see you?
So far no one else has been able to help – and she was directed to you via another naturopath who thought you were the one?

I said vaginal steaming was a step too far for me at this point, but you have included this in.

She is not picking and choosing. BOUNDARIES – set them.  YOU are a specialist . . .
Steaming is a crucial part of self care.  She is not being serious or open . .WHO is not listening – closed minds have no place in changing from unwell to vibrant. if she is keen on repair  – she would not have done any of this has been seeing chemo doctors.  That means you do a section of ‘this is why I do what I do’ This is my expectations – do your RICE for people seeing you.

I appreciate that you are very passionate about what you do, but the fact that you at one point said along the lines of ‘rant over’ summed up the experience.

Note to self – do not belittle YOURSELF what you are doing.
Say – that is the context or similar  .

I was prepared to reserve my judgement until receiving your treatment plan. – in case I was being too rash in my initial experience. However having now received it I stand by my assertion that I was not listened to.

WHO WAS NOT LISTENED TO?

Why did you not stop here and explain that steaming was central? Ask a different question in innocence.  What is it about steaming? Maybe this is the way forwards – to see you they need to be qualified further ? What causes health?
Also in the Maya way  (Time honoured)
https://maya.heatherbrucehealing.com/
and the Mercier styles. (Created out of personal necessity by a past surgical nurse/ midwife/ IVF transfer nurse/naturopath. She designed this combination of moves/ways of assisting the hormonal imbalances for those who were body respectful – in hard cases. (Gyno visceral corrections) https://www.merciertherapy.com/

Send her/everyone to the steaming page before they arrive.
https://heatherbrucehealing.com/why-would-you-consider-perineal-steaming/

Also here
https://heathersays.heatherbrucehealing.com/traditional-steaming/

We are addressing the first ‘T’.
Temptation to follow – to hand over – to become less adult.
She wants that?
She goes back to all who play the game with her – “Fix-It” . .
See here
https://heatherbrucehealing.com/ethics-adelaide-1/

Also – how do we know?
The 3rd and 4th . . .
Under the line – someone said. someone wrote . . .

Maybe you will also say – I follow science – and add in real data on masks even.
Going against the NZ Govt narrative is appropriate – the country is headed in a steep trajectory down the gurgler and all agreeing to run over the cliff as lemmings are not your audience.

You mentioned several minerals/supplements and yet these are not included and there is very little practical information, or even dosage information.

Picky picky picky – no gratitude. Can’t do everything in one session – AND – not when they are not open to change = healing.

Get what you intend people to do  printed out – so it perfectly set out – you only them have to do it once – and leave space for individualisation – but essentially she/they see this is a ‘protocol’ – and they stick by it  or do not expect to change – we have to get out of comfy to be able to let go why and what is stuck. and they talk with you about it . .
Go over it in the room.

PART TWO

More importantly – what it brought up for you. People pleasing. We do not do this.
We are undoing WHY and HOW = not the party line.
They have to be about thinking for themselves –
What is out there hasn’t worked – so her judging you and your offerings against what so far has not shown benefit means that she on many level is not receptive.
Deaf ears. Possibility in these days of danger . .

Ali – the same. We have all outgrown the system. We need to walk away.

STUCK  can’t flow when you hold on like Goolum.
PRECIOUS? Back to middle circle –
must be at their pace – BUT in Light .