My Gentlng Way adds in the essential moves of the Mercier work.

Most of us have digestive, structural and emotional systems that are upset by modern life – whether in a male or a female body. It may all may be gently coached back to optimal functioning.

I go far deeper than JUST reproductive help for women.
I have combined my own decades of working with ‘hard’ cases – (including fertility before IVF existed).
Plus all I have found through exploring wise elder’s traditions – as an Arvigo /Maya practitioner also.



A sedentary lifestyle creates compression of the testicles and groin, increases acidity, decreases waste removal, and creates malfunction and discomfort. By releasing the tensions and strains that life, incidents, accidents, falls, operations and illnesses have created your natural flows are returned to optimal, so that your body works perfectly again.

‘Men’s business’

By ensuring a full blood supply to the prostate, the abdominal massage helps to prevent and correct swelling and inflammation. It also helps alleviate varicose veins, causes of premature ejaculation, alleviates some impotency problems, infertility and the need to urinate frequently.

The Gentling Way – combo of the last 40 + years of my working at the cutting edge of those who seek help when told that they are apparently hopeless – from fertility challenges prior to IVF and now as they seemingly ignore the men’s woeful sperm contribution (modern life results) and when AIDS was hitting the news – before and after the medications that were so deadly in themselves) , to ‘high risk’ pregnancy – easily resolved when we look after the ingredients needed to run a body and the structural return to perfect – and onto ‘terminal’ diagnoses – again – let us see what the body can do to heal itself – and onto any thing ‘hard’

You may feel helpless and thus impotent in your life

Take a stand.
Your body IS designed to heal itself.
Maybe ask – Why is it not?
Let us see why – and return to a state of balance. .

Very rewarding for men.
Your womb is your prostate.

The prostate is a glandular organ that rests behind the bladder it has no ligaments to speak of for support. By applying the massage to the abdomen, healthy organ function is supported, relieving congestion that may have arisen resulting in the prostate gland becoming inflamed and enlarged. Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia (BPH), decreased sperm count and quality, decreased enjoyment and abilities in the bedroom, and urinary and fluid and allied back and lower leg circulatory challenges.


Men report that they can feel a distinct difference in blood flow (hence strength of erections) after a treatment. Not only does the massage relieve prostate swelling, but it helps alleviate varicose veins, premature ejaculation, some impotency problems and the need to urinate frequently.

  • Sexual function

  • Sperm challenges

  • Prostate/Urinary system

  • Lower back issues of any kind

  • Leg circulation problems

  • Digestive woes



    • Every digestive circulatory or structural upset will be helped through having the tension stored released through this gentle self care.
    • Lower back aching
    • Leg congestion including variscosities and neuropathies and diabetic ulcer regeneration
    • Early stages of prostate swelling
    • Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia (BPH)
    • Prostatitis (mild)
    • Peyronie’s
    • Matters of a bedroom nature – improving flows within the body can only assist all back to normal functioning.

    Besides gently correcting any digestive or structural challenges, the following of what you are advised to do can alter any urinary, prostate, reproductive and often painful back condition.

      Men have all the bits women do.

    • Mammals all start out being female (Humans – till about 8-9 weeks along) within our mothers.

    • This means that all blockages and impediments to flows are affecting men equally.

Common male pelvic health issues include:

  • penile/scrotal/perineal or anal pain
  • post-ejaculatory pain
  • erectile dysfunction
  • tailbone pain/coccydynia
  • pelvic pain that interferes with sitting and exercise
  • urinary urgency, frequency and hesitancy
  • decreased force of urinary stream
  • constipation
  • groin pain
  • sacroiliac joint dysfunction
  • Any urogenital problem
  • Especially hot balls as these preclude you from being a dad . .that simple
Also shows that there is a larger body warning being ignored – come and find out how to sort this  . .


Missing link in all ‘fertility’ info – logic – it takes two . .

Men’s fertility is a measure of their health

Improve one – improve the other.
As always – with any problem – Ingredients (nutrients) and flows (circulation).

Men are more seeking solutions for their pelvic health.

Relief from any acute or chronic pelvic health issue is as simple as getting flows flowing again – as all in traditional cultures know – pain is due to blockage. Restore circulation and all will be well again. The body heals itself when what is stopping this is removed.

Start as a farmer would – with the best breeding stock possible.

This is in your hands and you CAN change it.

Declutter – let your life flows freely

Reset – back to ‘factory’/original settings

Restore – your innate blueprint

Note – this is an intensive programme, not a session when you feel like showing up

Much like IVF – there needs to be an order as we take you through WHY babies are not happening – or WHY there is cancer – or WHY there is a lack of sexual sensation/good sperm being made – being reactive and just seeing me when you feel, for as long as you feel – is not the way to guarantee success in any endeavour.

We can work a lot together – when we both have the same degree of commitment.
I know mine is always for the Highest Good of  all concerned.
Let’s make this a real team effort!!!

The Shared Journey

See how a simple set of moves

and an integrated approach can naturally help you make better babies. 

Or  using my accumulation of nearly 40 years working with couples to make families

And to transfer ‘Hard’ cases to simple – you can shape yourself or a better body to live in!

It takes two to make more . .
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6 sessions and we can likely transform your body/future