Welcome

Over the decades working with mainly women and their woes, it became apparent that I needed to know more. When I found the Arvigo (Maya) work I was hooked. Here where the -wise women’s ways that I knew existed somewhere. An understanding of how a woman’s life mapped out as she developed and went through the stages, and a way to respect and honor her bleeding, breeding and aging,. Plant medicine, spiritual connections and a tribal sense of community.

After working these ways into my Moving Blockages to healing style of Qi (acupuncture) and body aligning (through learning acupuncture from a chiropractor who was interested in anything that was different, plus womb work) I found Dr Jennifer Mercier’s work, and traveled again to the states (fourth time in three years) to learn what she was up to.

Although her work was manly for those who did not want, or who had failed IVF, I took home what she was not doing using all the new moves on the men, and everyone., any age to see what it could do. I was stunned – so much better than the Arvigo my style. I got those who had done my two three hour sessions to come back, at no extra cost than my usual acupuncture session,a s I trialed the moves out – and all had the same results.

After trailing this in clinic for several months, I developed Living Ligaments – the Gentling Way. The gap in the market that wall were failing through (where I saw no one winning regardless of their following guidelines, and suggestions, showing up for sessions and ‘being good’ was that home care needed. – I provide this with my resources. And of course the sequence of what is needed to undo easily what has happened to all of us. The Gentling Way principles are on this site. I do not the force change that the biomedical, and most others including and the Arvigo and Mercier systems do. We are all in shock, hiding it in our tissues and not ready to let go when told to. Being too heavy handed, not looking to why the body can not replace itself back where it is to be is the key.

Magic – all had no words looked flummoxed and told me that they felt lighter and had more room ‘in there’ pointing to their pelvis. Also that they were longer (taller) Why? Adhesions – here we are . neither styles of womb therapy mentioned scar tissue, though I was doing what I had been taught from the late 70’s on all and lymphatic drainage, as part fo my restoring normal n Moving the Blockages to Healing already, and had perfected these moves. They are to be found in my self paced online course Foundational Moves, as these were what I had been using on all I saw. Secrets of my highly successful time in clinic dealing with what all had not fixed – starting from the beginning.

Getting the pain gone – through moving Qi and lymph with my fingers first,
Gently allowing the body to relax enough to let go.

Most of this was due to what people call ‘trauma’. I call it stuck. How to unstick the body? and emotional content that holds the body hostage? and work on the soul script that asks for clearance? that is the question, answered by untangling as the body lets us, that which holds all that has been remembered and can’t be let go until . . . That until is unique to the one being worked upon.

First Triage – calm the Shen,
Take out the cold stored in the body that was wrecking normal
Deal with the scars and adhesions that were stopping normal QI, lymph, blood and nerve flows.

All before, we deal with what the womb is up to. And the back/ structure – all needed to be let go and as an onion, be peeled back.

The Free Your Qi work is the start for anyone – and anyone can. Here is the page to get you going. There is a beginner’s online course to go further into this work. For everyone, no prior learning – just being in a body is needed.

We all have a womb – or did have

The womb – all had one – as the boys which developing inside mum were as all mammals – meant to to be female, (birds and reptiles are defaulted on the male) and took the male turn when there dihydro testosterone kicked in at 8 or 9 weeks gestation, Their would be ovaries dropped to become testicles.

Their would-be-womb became another reproductive nurturing organ – a prostate gland. What was to be a clitoris became a penis – a boy is in the making.

From here, they still have vestiges of being woman, as all who change nappies on their baby sons can see – a join or seam, where vulva would have been.

Wombs respond to what is happening in the life of the man (prostate or female as they grow. The estrogenic haze the contaminants now freely floating in the biosphere (mentioned first by Rachel Carspn in 1962 in her seminal work Silent Spring, are creating havoc to all of us.

A man came in to see me to see if I could assist him, as he was dying of stage 4 prostatic cancer – no hope medically – having been accidentally sprayed with Roundup and two other severe estrogenic pesticides at work within a few months (after he nearly died in intensive care of instant breathing trouble).Estrogenic compounds make excess growth and the reproductive organs have receptors. He was smothered in it and his body responded as they do. Also – wombs and the genital area are irrigated from an energy model – bu the Liver Qi and what c=flows through is the instructions for life – in the liver case – emotions – and being stuck and not expressing careless major drama – he also had this in abundance – as we all do.

This is not noted in most medical works on what we now face – epidemics of over growth in the ovaries, and wombs and testes as well as the general tissues – of all living things. Thus when a man walks in with his pelvic or lower back troubles I know to start there and attempt to get him understanding that all chemicals in his house need to go. The cleaning products, the ones he used on his body – as we see when we clean out r houses of this all – then the precocious puberty but he the girls and boys are undergoing calms down.

Puberty and all of life biologically responds to tiny amounts of messengers – and these when outside the body in the environment may completely imbalance a kid for life. We all had a blueprint – which is being contaminated by all injectables and the pollutants that have been flooding in unchecked, all pathways, as we get further into anything goes – not Nature. Jing is n East Asian medical term for that which is body capital – what our genetic and inherited strength is.It shows up as this. Girls have 7 years cycles – boys 8. – Chart for the care of a human below comes from my version o what is found in the Chinese classics (from my 2005 book What Dads Can Do’ – see more here.

We can improve upon , or wreck what we started with – a little like being gifted a large legacy at birth, and choosing to not look after it but squander – and thus have little leftover as the life and age take their tolls. Living off teh capital, not the interest is the issue for most of us. The Chinese classics have a way to see life that is always followed – when we live in a natural world. We don’t, and need to go back there, if we want to have normal happen. No more drugs needed – but a clean life.

Wombs – left to right – normal non bleeding, an about to bleed, and a menopausal one

When I pass the womb models around in class, all respond the same way – OHHH
It does grow monthly – where does the blood stay otherwise? And these models are minus extras as fibriods, and the twice normal weight and size is obvious in our hands – in our pelvis – not necessarily if all is well down there.

When our body is working as designed we have no idea – as it all is on automatic. If we have had incidents, accidents and woundings, things change as the womb is the centre of our body.

When our body is distressed, circulation goes haywire in various way s and we have dysfunction and pain. ‘Hormonal’ may only be because we have blocked lymph and blood flow in and out of where it is needed.