Welcome
YOU ARE HERE AS YOU HAVE LOST
What stage of pregnancy? Used to be prior to 13 weeks . .Seems these days that any loss is called miscarriage now. Including 38 weeks – since the whopping cough jabs (and now after the 2021 debacle) – bubs die in utero. Times past – no one even took an aspirin as it may damage developing baby – now all is seem as ‘safe’ and you may lose.
Strange times – when First, Do No Harm is lost in group paranoia. Women in birthing are so open and vulnerable and need advocacy . . IS THIS YOU?
First – the soul of the one ‘lost’ – who is working with this? And the passing over? And the possible contract that they had?
If we step up – and into the top circle, being STUCK in the middle of emotional morass may be easier,
The bottom is biology – and we could get mechanical – I will start there. WDCD pages 120 – 125
How does she go through this alone – and him outside?
Humanity – lost. A story – (guard your heart) . (CLICK) Finally pregnant – then woke to her screaming. Potential 4 hour wait for ambo. Dead weight on the floor. Baby stuck in cervix. (Would likely have bled out . ). No support. Should not have happened – and here we have – the entry of The Natural Pregnancy Guide – we are here for this. Nurturing New Life (CLICK). Unfinished page on loss (CLICK)
Marginal cord insertion (CLICK) Hughe’s syndrome (CLICK)
Placental issues – after a past C section usually (CLICK)
You – hands on and general care – me overseeing. AvoidingEarlyPregnancyLoss (CLICK to download) PREVENTION – go like you mean to make a great house – you are – someone has to live in it all their time here.
Premmie bubs – Nature is not wanting this. Unless she is chucking it away.
Reasons? Always will be – not good enough. Can we improve this? Yes – better starts.
Ideally not made until perfect . .
Covered somewhat in WDCD – pages 118 – 125 7 – After Early Pregnancy Loss (CLICK)
We need to be farmers- and gardeners. Not medicos (fee for service) but BEST we can make. . Nutrients – Circulation – are the two big issues.
What to do in the middle of a loss:
6 d – Losing instructions (CLICK)
Fingertip rescues . . see all on this site as what helps in labour will also assist in relieving what you nay be going through. Likely it will physically hurt. A lot. Go to what helps labour pain and expedites the cervix opening – It all works. Maybe also get the Fingertip First Aid online course and go to the relevant section.
IMMEDIATE LIFE RETRIEVAL (HER’S)
This is not a small issue as if she has lost a lot of blood – this is not a matter of iron stores in blood tests – she needs mothering to get over this – and a good womb worker is essential – and possibly a nurturing pregnancy acupuncturist/who uses body work also
NOT HAPPENING AGAIN
BUT the issue in pregnancy loss/miscarriage prevention is HIM – where is his great seeds? Not in the 3% looking visibly normal that the WHO now touts as Mr Fertile. Here you are. MUST work out why this happened. Unlikely to be the new excuse – ‘GENETIC’ – likely it is a simple farming issue – get well FIRST – esp him.
The emotional and for both parents lost will be huge.
The well-meaning who give platitudes – do not understand.
The couple have lost a life. And their potential combined future.
What it means – may be never again – death of a dream – at least of that child – and maybe all others.
They may not stay together as a couple – as this hurts deeply. This needs rescuing. Time passes so slowly. The grandparents also lost. . . .
What often happens is dad is left out of the process – and few see what it felt like – as he is trying to be protective for her. He may not have know he wanted a baby – til he met his own. WHAT TO DO – start from the beginning – get him in excellent health so he can pour his heart into the baby you can make next.
Maybe reach out to see what I can offer – as so much is possible when you have help. Not ‘talky talky’ – though this may be helpful. I speak to you both being in loving connection again – and there are so many online self paced ways I have for you to Do It Yourself.