Welcome
This page is an introduction into my Gentling Way of being an acupuncturist – esp in women’s traumas, specifically around maternity. What spurred this page on was that occasionally someone asks me a question. Their training has not covered. They are stumped. This is a great idea, as ‘high risk’ pregnancy is actually only that when seen through the eyes of the ‘we don’t know brigade – the medicos.
When we take a different look – all comes down to Follow Nature.
We can enhance to a point – and baby is being made – thus pregnancy is THE best time to do this.
In my decades of working with the ‘too hard’ and experiencing many of these issues myself, an teaching others – who find me as this is their calling – usually evidenced by their own personal maternal stories – we discovered 2 issues.
1 – Nutrients (ingredients)
2 – Circulation (flows)
I have been working with woman in a closed cult in NZ – (similar but also very different to the Amish) when the medical and standard have no answers – for over 12 years there has been – ‘ask Heather’.
Throughout this experience, my ‘What Dads Can Do’ work shines. . 
I found the Arvigo/Maya work then the Mercier and have amalgamated it all into Heather’s Gentling Ways.
This is the culmination of my life long passion – help those who see to be ‘hopeless’.
If you are short on answers and need them – perhaps come on in. . ?
These figures I have had drawn up below may assist . .
Where is your focus – especially as an acupuncturist?
Bao Mai feeds the wombspace We may need to extend what we see ‘self’ as . . .
Welcome to . . .
Why I am passing my decades of interesting ways of working on
Before we get into the actual cases I will put up here . .
Ground rules.
We have myriad ways of seeing the world.
People come to see us as what they have is not being addressed elsewhere.
If we use the same paradigm – we may at least calm them down – maybe – but we may need more.
All you see and hear may seem ‘foreign’ to your brain – and right to everything else . .
PLEASE – do not censor, listen and feel . .
I am on the ‘left hand side’ of the page . .
Maybe ask yourself. .
Do I have the courage to stand beyond my training and all I hold dear?
Here is where the Transformative Healing comes in.
How to undo the organ pathology and step into Qi medicine?
How to take your current learning into a different direction?
How to look into Womb work?
https://heatherbrucehealing.com/healsbruh/womb-work-centering-a-womansbody/
It is not for many – as this is deep.
We uncover our own issues first – we have to be clear enough to work at this interface – as you can imagine through listening to the ones who saw me the day before the filming of this series. Maybe reframe what you think ‘a life’ is?
Case # I (in no special order)
She is 40 and in a new relationship.
3 older children – 9- 17 plus the 2 year old the recently dead bub and the one who has ‘issues’ in the brain – and now – being asked – ‘do you want to terminate?’ – birth a baby not to be resuscitated? Maybe have an entirely normal baby sacrificed to the apparent all knowing eye of a scan?
How does any mum answer this?
How do you support someone who is so deeply upset?
Ingredients and circulation
The extras to allow the optimal expression of Jing.
The most basic – love more.
Bao Mai and no shock/trauma – just Love.
Look through the three circles . . .
Top circle – she signed up for this
Middle circle – personality – ‘what if’ – an we/I cope?
Bottom circle – baby making as normal (minus scans, mum would have (as in first 4 pregnancies) been blissfully in love – though in this pregnancy – totally concerned that the problem Noah (last baby who died) had is not replicated.. now this. . . 20 week scan – problems in brain development. 28 week scan – more problems found.
Do we need to know?
Bell curve -we are all different and are all here to do different things. .
(Says Kathryn’s mother)
She is pregnant – and whilst making another person ..
Is also improving herself – as the Jing whilst creating another person’s life foundation is also renovating her.
The body can do anything and turn all around – when we bring in the Light – the opposite of fear based ‘reality’
Placebo (the context we hold the healing) – not nocebo (‘pointing the bone essentially) (see more in my Ethics component of Transformative Healing and the Gentling Trauma Relief package).
More foundational information found below
(written for anyone who needs a bit more on ingredients and the process through life eyes – not medical . .
Pregnancy .
https://heatherbrucehealing.com/healsbruh/pregnancy/
Pregnancy resources
https://heatherbrucehealing.com/healsbruh/easy_pregnancy_resources/
Baby .. . influences on life – the least differentiated – the more everything impacts.
Pregnancy . . . mum . .. can be renovated/remade
Remember . .
Close proximity
Normal pre bleeding/pre pregnant womb in pelvis
If there are any adhesions – these will need to let go.
And . .the body remembers everything that has ever happened to it .
Womb over – not on bladder – normal re pregnancy position
Pondering in the physiology and the anatomy – we know that we need to add in the energy grids . .
This is where I start with all my work: The 8 Extras – real channel theory and practically inspired through cases …
NOT organ pathology through herbalised ‘this point does that’.
Case that inspired this deviation from my expected day’s work . .
32 weeks –
Septate uterus.
Bub in breech.
On ‘low dose antibiotics’. (Constant UTI’s – no ‘pre pregnancy care’)
Nutrients – below I mention Liquid Activated Zeolites – I wish there was no need to keep talking about non biologically available minerals and ingredients needed for life – but these may be found in blood tests – but your cells can’t see them .. leads to problems – an these are not addressed looking medically.
Also baby positioning .. .
In the links below – as I have tried to put in a way others can follow – my past 40 years of constant honing maternity into perfect – back pain? Easy also . .
I ask you to ponder. . .
What is normal?
What is happening
Why is this so?
What do we do or not?
How to maximise optimal life for all?
1 – 32 years old – thus sacrum is calcified – no trouble really – can undo anything – with better nutrients – see here
2 – Bicornate uterus – how ever? The septum – how far down? This will determine whether bub can be born.
(Also we could ask – why is this this way Jing ..
3 – Baby positioning – without bicornate – would go through to here . .
So what? Except – the baby gate – is it open – or will it stop the full birth? – YOU can change this.
Alter WHY bub is best presently breech.
4 – On antibiotics all through pregnancy – need to undo why the UTI’s – and then recolonise gut in preparation for better gut function for mum and thus baby ..
Point by point . .
1 and 3 – sacral /tailbone/pelvis – opening the baby gate. .
Women’s bodies are made to birth.
My example of my own pelvis enlarging in birthing 40 – 42 inches.
Baby #3 at me being 39+ years old. 8.5 lb bub at 39 weeks . . narrow pelvic outlet and # tailbone and scarum
Use the sacral moxa fan and the butt massage as found in all my work – to allow what is being stored in the pelvis to open into surrender to easy birthing.
2 – Bicornate uterus – please search yourself online.
May be no problem – and may be the need for a scheduled C section = more on healing after C section is found within my online courses – is more than needing scar and the adhesions and all the leadup and aftermath of this intervention are usually undealt with.
4 – ON antibiotics ..
Please see bladder and uterus positioning above – and realise that ANTI life measures are not helpful . .
We need to seed bub’s microbiome and mum’s vaginal one – even if she is to be C sectioned, the seeding of bub’s gut is still very possible. Please research yourself. . . also see here
Case to demonstrate – 4th breech . .
https://heatherbrucehealing.com/healsbruh/opening-the-baby-gate-2/
Josi got what she worked for
Normal birth (2 hour labour after 2 C sections) – and a lot of work from me and her husband (What Dads Can Do).
You can assist others also . . My life’s work is case by case – individualised care – no bio medical – return back to mammalian maternity – and undo all that clutter that says (to middle circle) you CAN’T .
Body knows that it can – we may need to tweak to encourage normal again . .
Always – triage
Take out what is not supposed to be there – often in pregnancy it is all the medicalised worriful clutter – plus then the maternal angst – often best to let nature decide – and let go ..
Reset the ‘factory’ settings.
Restore normal
The C section work is very obviously geared to those who have gone through my courses.
My ‘protocol’ in all pregnancy (and life) is boringly simple – and always works.
NO differential diagnosis – no pulse work – simple – ask the body.
Take them back to normal – homeostasis restored – body then heals itself.
Maybe then we can look to what is also obvious and is ignored.
What next?
After Reconnecting Bao and Dai Mai
and Gentling Trauma Relief
https://heatherbrucehealing.com/healsbruh/part-2-gentling-way-trauma-relief-brisbane-28-29-september/
We have .. Living Ligaments – Womb Woes to Womb Wonders . .
What we could do to ensure best outcomes possible? Opening the Baby Gate . .
