Welcome
FIRST – A central question – who is “I”?
Whilst this is taken from my 2005 What Dads Can Do manual, it is relevant in any context.
When we gain sovereignty, we no longer live in the world of others. BUT .. .
If we are working from our middle circle,
we will get thrown about and being conned is a huge – manipulated through the fears of . . . .
Programming . . .
We may wish to ask – who do we serve? We have enough trouble tripping ourselves up often with our own inner games/beliefs/dogmas even .. . . .
Easy to see the personality cages of others, and to point fingers BUT how do we get past our, and their reasons why not?
They (we) may have a ‘problem’ – but – do they (we) wish to fix what is keeping it current?
“What would it mean to you?” question applies. .
Separating into the groups that naturally have characteristics
| LIFE NATURAL – PREGNANCY/BIRTHING | MEDICAL – PREGNANCY/BIRTHING |
| CRUNCHY’ /Baby centred/ Child focused | ‘Good’ /Believing Dr knows best/ self focused |
| Knows and trusts Nature | Fear governs all actions – follows authorities |
| Allows life to unfold | Feels safer if controlled at every step |
| Needs to know, and questions any and everything. | Will do whatever told/comply, as that is the way to ‘win’ |
| LIFE/ NATURAL – FERTILITY | MEDICAL /FERTILITY |
| Want the best baby naturally/possible | Want a baby at any cost – SELF focused |
| Question everything | Follow the Dr’s latest dictates blindly |
| Understand the cycles and tides of life flows | Think anything can be bought – throw more $$ at the ‘problem’ |
| Respect and trust life and its processes | Fear of missing out – assume nature is being difficult |
| LIFE/ NATURAL –‘STUDENTS OF LIFE’ /’PATIENTS’ | MEDICAL – STUDENTS OF LIFE’ /’PATIENTS’ |
| R – Responsibility – Is it ethical/biological sustainable? | R – Responsibility – Is it ‘safe’? |
| I – To follow inner Light and goodness | I – Has to be within guidelines externally measured |
| C – Commitment – First, Do No Harm | C – Commitment – To self – and to follow $$ as that is king |
| E – Empowerment – Sovereignty | E – Empowerment – NONE |
| INNER WORK/ self aware – they hold their own keys | HOPE – be ‘good’ and all will be well |
| Scared of staying STUCK | Scared of dying – will do anything to not |
| Know the life is theirs’, as are lessons and work to be done | Hand over to someone ’qualified’/external to self |
| Know the inner template is to be respected/followed | Health outcomes based on ‘luck; and ‘genes’ |
| Trust/ faith in nature and their own script – change is possible | Belief in diagnosis /label – thus dictated prognosis |
| Sovereign – they are the architects of their own future | Very malleable/gullible |
| LIFE/ NATURAL – PRACTITIONERS | MEDICAL – /PRACTITIONERS |
| Mission – to allow the body to heal | Mission – to stop people dying at all costs |
| Terraine focused – assist body to work its own magic | Study death, cadavers, and see ‘germs’ as cause of disease |
| Have inner ethical code – follow nature | Want/need to be included/accepted /part of the guild |
| Inner authenticity | Eternal (not self) authority governs actions |
| Question everything – individual/teat the person here, now | Do what are told – esp to ‘believe’ – protocol driven |
| Focus ‘above the line’ – they just know, or have embodied truth | Focus ‘under the line’ – lies, and litigation as ‘sticks’ |
| PLANTS ARE OUR FRIENDS | PHARMA FODDER |
LIFE VERSUS MEDICINE
| Understand nature and flows of life | ‘More research needed’ usual refrain, as often ‘we don’t know’ |
| Health enhancement/retrieval | Win against disease |
| Understand terrain – ability to adapt | Study death to attempt life |
| Questioning is welcome | Questioning banned – ‘settled science’ |
| Stand back, and let nature win | Rush in and control /force change |
