Untangling messed up mamas

A query – I wanted to reach out to you because over 11 years ago you helped me with acupuncture while I was pregnant with my younger girl! Well guess what! All this time later and I am pregnant again and I was really wanting your help again on the journey as I believe it made my labour so much better than first time around! I think you’re in nz now though – is that correct? Are you coming back at anytime or is there anyone else who you would recommend to me? I’m having a hard time getting my head right about everything seeing as my body is older (40 now) etc and I’m worried how I will go I guess! I found talking with you so empowering etc and it really got my head in the right place for the birth. Any way you could help now or give advice on who to go to who is just (about) as good as you would be so appreciated and put my mind at ease 💕

There is far too much of this going on – expecting woman to cope.

There IS a finite spot, – for all of us after which all is broken . .

People seeing a pregnant woman having a discrete life incident – and holding out their hands to be paid to ‘get her through’. is a modern version of life support. BUT making new life is a tribal event – or would be if people were precious . Shall we make it so again?

Dr John Shen – his work is not able to be faulted – I have tried. .
By not understanding that the time for healing – is IN PREGNANCY AND BREASTFEEDING.

She can change all in her story – up or down. Whatever happens Ideally she is looking after herself ore than ever before – resting and undoing what has happened in the past – BUT usually she is still at work – as a slave to the trappings of modern life. .and may also be attempting to finish degrees, projects and so on – forgetting that the most important job is building another person.

And herself – renovations

What happened in her life – will play out as she needs to burn off the dross – and remake herself.
No time for ‘precious princess’ – now is action stations as she is making another person. .
And that foundation is to build upon.

Mystery – that was ‘with child’ now it is an opportunity to worry/groom – whilst she in this vulnerable state, instead of going within – asks all to help her out I call – ENOUGH!

Whatever has led her to be who//how she is :

There is a transformation to come. . .she is about o be a mother – regardless of how many times this has happened – she is welcoming another into her life – forever after.

MUST alter as her life is to undergo a metamorphysis – initiated into being for another – not herself.
What if – she cant cope with life as it is?
That she has to be ‘in control’ and even then – is on various mood enhancers/ S.S.R.I.’s and other numbing agents?
What if now being pregnant – and possibly having been jabbed – she is at least subliminally aware – that the body is failing her?
that she is not the one she was in other pregnancies – or that she is aware of the death and fetal destructions around her – and is pretending – that it will not sit her?

I am someone else’s someone else. I have a massively brain injured adult child supposed to die in infancy – and yet is now 37 . . .
Thus – I speak from the inside looking out – and now that the life learnings I had were also for others.

We can only make that baby once. The medicos are not able to assist when we have real problems – they have very little in their tool kit – Likely to tell you that you are anxious – and basically – to go away. Especially if you took the jab and now a different body that before that. Being offered limited help as the system gradually falls over. means that YOU get to take charge – who live sin that body/life anyway?

Times when the impact of anything dictates what next . . .the closer we are to conception, the more vulnerable we are
the more perfect matters . Times when we can alter our lives – puberty, onset of sexuality, PREGNANCY and menopause – thus being not well prior to pregnancy is a misadventure not only for baby as mum COULD be enhancing tre rest of life if she is looking after her self differently.

Baby IS mum. Whatever is happening to her happens to the one in the inner sea – full of nutrients hopefully – but also of vast array of toxins that were never designed to be let loose in the biosphere. AND the ones that they must sign up for now – the scanning and the pre and in pregnancy jabs, the extras that are added in – the gestational diabetes test offered to the woman I listened today – at 10-11 weeks !! How is this even sensible?
To worry her further – the 20 week scan – they worried her about baby circumference too different to what it should be. .

She, an overly anxious person due to decades of domestic abuse – initially in her family of origin, then with her first husband – is not able to cope(and is not now) on 50 mcg of an S.S.R.I. – Zoloft (Sertraline). . and was to go to the GP tomorrow to see what next . .

Well – nutrients needed – not Zoloft – Magnesium, Zinc and B vitamins – then there are all sorts of stories about how she can’t swallow tablets. . Then I find out about her VERY damaged two older children – many diagnoses and on the spectrum – and in a vast mess. . .
She deals with these – plus her own . .

Having had two jabs, she also has had Covid – the last time in the middle of a holiday many states away – and is now so much more anxious – in part – as her dad would (guard your heart) try to stuff so much in her mouth to stop her breathing – so not having a clear nose is ‘triggering; and she is super anxious even thinking of going to bed. – EVERY night .

Where does this all end? Never should have been given pills instead of undoing ‘trauma’ . . .
With me . . see this page – getting off heavy prescription drugs . . .

Baby being made . . Baby being mothered . .

In her case – what to be done . .hence I say Triage –
1 – Rescue the Shen
2 – Rescue the Yang Qi (take out the cold – that also includes – where is the Iodine? ) and
3 – Undo scars I have no idea what has happened to her – besides the fact that she was born with spina bifida – and has had the operation as a baby to stuff the extra neurological tissue back into her neck/cranial area.!! JING ISSUES – and from lack of maternally available B complex so the baby she has inside – is in trouble – as she was hospitalised after 2nd Pfizer jab – the first one gave her heart pain and more anxiety . . . I told her we had priorities. . .

1 – Why you spent all life in fear

2 – Consequences of the jab – generally

3 – Myocarditis why you and not all who got jabbed?

4 – Unexpected pregnancy

5 – Covid again and what happened next

My patient is the one to be conceived or is being made – not the mum – HOWEVER – she is in crisis..

To help the ‘incubator’ – mum – she needs better nutrients – that is why the page here as a starter – and also here – and then the online bundle Nourishing YOU .. (Love Your Body Better and LIFE Essentials)

What could lie ahead?
Could become your story (HELLP) It is so easily avoided – follow life and ingredients needed to run a well pregnant body. HELLP
The relationship your fueling system (food factory) and what you pop in your mouth and why is the answer. From her story – shall we investigate how to NOT be like her?

All too easy – see more her – Mildred Sellig write all of this in the 1980’s – and ‘everyone knows’ – eat a balanced diet – who eats that now?
Ask yourself – What If Something Goes Right? Free course for you here
What to eat when making another life? (Including your’s – BETTER)
See more here – how to get the most from your food factory (gut) and what to put in it – and why
A hint .