Welcome

Me with my son with his son and daughter
One morning I got up early and in the quiet, and I had a talk with you . .
Maybe a grandmother who is equally disturbed at the loss of humanity in maternal ‘care’ with the focus on hospital policies, not bonding
Me intent on getting my voice heard in response to the anti baby led birthing – whether at home, free’ or in any way ensuring my=ma nd baby are intact as a unit, as Mother Nature intended.
After birth – what next? – 2.32

Golden Month outlines a holistic approach towards postnatal care that amalgamates the best practices from different cultures throughout the world.
An acupuncturist and teacher, Jenny Allison has spent a decade researching this book. Golden Month aims to debunk the anxiety-inducing myth of the perfect postpartum body. It focuses on a mother’s long-term well-being, looking at both mental and physical health.
Golden Month also explains the importance of nutrition and includes nutrient-dense recipes to ensure optimum recovery during the postnatal period.
My story . . broken baby from a broken mother – 3.00
Unspoken truths – teaching hospitals/current ‘best practices’ ignore who has to take baby home. ..
Dad – when skin to skin I was asked – 2.09
Who supports the family? Who has the most to lose? (Baby)
Dad as protector (he gets to take mum home) – 3.09
What happens if mum CAN’T cope? Is anyone thinking ahead – who has to MOTHER?
OPTIMAL – mammalian maternity – 2.11
Our future is dependent upon gentle birthing – gentle mothering
Support – nurturing new-born mum – 3.04

Gentle Birth – Gentle Mothering – see more here
We mums who also are passionate birth and mothering advocates speak . . .
Heather’s personal baby support – 3.02
Support – ‘post natal’ – mum needs to be mothered
Post natal modern life – 3.02
At least – meal trains . .
We older mums know – and are voicing our huge concerns – mums may need to be mothered to be able to mother
How do we get to be the mother we wish to be? – 3.56
Mad mother? Maybe see this link? (CLICK)
Maybe she was on S.S.R.I.s etc prior to pregnancy – 3.05
A case . . . she started pregnancy on Pristiq (for 15 years!!) and massive O.C.D. and ended on less medications and well and a HAPPY mum
SET UP to win – NOT BROKEN – 4.10
How are you going to mother . . . esp FOOD and WATER . .
NOT TO BE YOU

What to do? . . . find older mums – not medical professionals – and ask for their voice
WE HAVE BEEN YOU!
My suggestion – aim for
Easy Babies . . From Easy Births
Easy Pregnancy From
Easy Fertility Easy Sexuality & Easy Periods


