Welcome
Lenley – got out of the weekend – check what their normal is.
Fiona – take baby steps – and go at their pace – what heir needs are – and their normal . . and being present.
4.00 – active listening – Lenley explaining Miriam. Checkers – so she could feel her body. to 7.40 – me giving the rest of the story . .
8.30– Unraveling for her in a safe space . . Fiona – so important for her to be in circle
10.50 – Sita arrived. What she saw happened. M was glowing – transformed – able to cry – and the injured eye also cried . .
13.00– Desperate and asked for help = (above) and turned on the phone, saw my post . .
15.00 – Mad mamma tongue – I asked for the info = do you often feel as though you are going mad?”
Had a freezing belly/bum.
17.00 – scars everywhere.
I did NOT use pricklies scars. Or Stuck Belly Blood protocol.
(I was trying to NOT use pricklies).
Sketch is placement of M’s scars . ..Need to do this for all your patients so you remember what is being blocked. .
‘Hooks’ are the shoulder scars to be added to excess skin grown across the throat.
Under the ears – that skin taken to use on face.
C section and the areas lateral – to be replaced under the ears.
21.00 – Shamanic De armouring – Nicola had this and got the ‘shakes’.
Many people see this as a wonderful option/badge even.
24.00 – LL seeing what she saw.
25.40 – LL with the Mashenka entity dump in a L.L.I. training several year ago.
27.00 – LL – her mistake . . . and we ended up with only Mashenka and LL – so we had an interesting time.
29.00 – Insubstantial phlegm . . .as did Mashenka ..
30.00 – Sita speaking of the now times – ans entities. .
31.00 – WE ARE ALL OF THE LIGHT AND MAY HAVE FORGOTTEN – esp with Mercier deep moves. . OBSERVE ANNA . .
32.00 – Also mad mamas – here and here PMDD
33.00 – We are not interested in what is in the physical – we are working off the body, with the body = the electrics . . and are more than biomechanics,
33.30 – women being raped – and I do not buy into this. . . not our lane.
34.00 – What you could do as a co worker with me off line. Me – specialist in hard cases – YOU are the hands. .
Reminder – keep looking at the tongue – kept on improving .
36.00 – Fiona’s friends daughter – all sorts of surgeries. 2 bowel obstructions Stage 4 endo – adhered her bowel, 2 laps hysterectomy stoma (double bowel resection). Many traumas – always in a lot of pain,
37.00 – Where to start?
38.30 – What her mum did to her – dragged her by hair, down stairs, against bedheads – all this is memories resurfacing. Kaliana’s stuff is needed. .
39.30 – Need to get out of medical and get into self help – steaming, castor oil packs etc . .
40.00 – Dad did not know either . . how Maja dealt with extreme gyne pain –
41.00 – Need to get the scar and steaming workshops . .paradigm shift needed for healing
44.00 – Sonia with Arvigo Self Care – initially – no steaming – NEED to . .
47.00 – Fiona’s person – still has her ovaries left in.
49.00 – Not able to work much due to all of this. At least will not have adenomyosis.
51.00 – What are we bleeding on? And use them for everything – strips from the panty liners .
54.00 – How can people get better with out you people working on them. . Me on GV training – when we go through where we are in womb work – in an orderly process – or we could force it.
56.00 – Where did the endo come from?
59.00 – LL – what she got out of tonight . . Working in the body – but I am not working in their bit.
SITAS’ story . .
1.01.00 – Being consumed with how to clear it as the practitioner/patient at the same time.
1.03.00 – Sita – knows how to do what she has learned,. .and it is the simple things. Energy
1.06.30 – Fiona – grateful for the ability to talk it all over . .
1.09.00 – Sonia – and not using pricklies – and seeing Peace again – simple treatment. .
1.11.30 – Sonia this works without needles . . .needed to hear this. What points to use on self – Liv 2 and Co 11 – mating stems of unlike Qi. .
PLEASE WRITE YOUR VERSION DOWN SO I CAN ADD IN HERE – we all need.
Gillian – updates
I asked her if she was enraged as usual – No. Had a big good cry tonight, released a lot of pressure been carrying for a while. Will go through chat and pin messages, so I can find easily. Will steam more, feels good, the instant the heat hits. Just got bleed came fine, only effect was I felt the blood come out. Yesterday evening huge cry but in a good way instead of raging at that man
Big day worked 1 hour from home all day. Can’t believe how easy my period came. Wow
What are we doing?
Lenley said “Bridging where the person is, to where they need to go. But that isn’t necessarily discussed. Whatever is needed to have a paradigm shift. For some people it maybe self care – steaming. Others it maybe dietary. Or changing living situations etc etc Overtime this can constitute a paradigm shift. It’s a means of going inward to create a new way of living”.
Gillian – thinks some form of advanced acupuncture . . will send more later – as will Miriam.
Anna Sometimes when you are the receiving of recipient receiving treatments you forgot those things as a practitioner but being a practitioner watching to teacher working on receiving of recipients – new perspectives and you see a full clear picture ever MORE
Last weekend was a massive impact and left lots of imprints in me and I have learnt so much from watching heather in action on two recipients – I am very grateful because it has helped me knowing what I know and what I need to be reminded of – simple reminders – keep it simple, no need for overthinking, creating a safe space for the person to release and let go.
In relation to what LL said about checking THEIR normal. . I recorded this whilst students were eating lunch.
What we’ve got is a classic example of if we could sort out what the Liver meridians were doing, we would have less physical trauma. Now that is a bit of a trick, because people are used to being as stressed as they are, as distressed as they are, thinking they’ ve got themselves all in control and it all works because they keep life in a box, but life is not in a box. We can all relate.
That means that we all get used to the sleep we do or don’t have, the food we do or don’t have, the behaviour we accept from other people, etc, etc, etc, etc, and that’s all our normal. It is only when I start asking people, to start with, I explain to them what a normal period is. Well, they look at me as though I’ve grown another head, that is not a normal period.
I had one woman who rang me up in deep distress, guard your heart, twice. Her stepfather was teaching his boys all the different sexual positions and what you could do to women because you could when she was 13. I know, I told you, guard your heart. And her mother, what was she doing? I don’t know, wanting to hang on to the man. I’ve got no idea. So she had all sorts of drama going on down there, including she only bled black and it burnt coming out like tar. So when I ask people what colour, I know where I’m going and why they’ve got what they’ve got. She had extreme heat. She was so incredibly rageful, but it was nice because, of course,
We’ve got the survival thing if we actually have to stay on the planet. So I can’t remember besides that PCOS drama bullshit that she was told she had. Remember, hormones are all about feelings. She rang me one day from work. She was trying to talk really quietly. She was really upset. (Whispering) Heather, I think I’m broken. What’s the problem? I’ve got red stuff coming out of my vagina. I said, is it time for your period? She said, yes. I said, you’re bleeding. That’s normal. She had never had blood coming out of there before. And it wasn’t burning her coming out and it wasn’t great big lumps and she wasn’t in great pain. She was now fixed and she thought she was broken because her normal was not that. She didn’t know you could bleed red. So you don’t know what people are calling normal.
You’ve got to be invasive and ask a question because you have to find out what they think is real. And then I will come out with a normal period is to be set with the sun 28 to 29 days. No celebrations, no great big, everything’s going mad in your body. A tap turns on, a tap turns off. It goes up like this and goes down again. There’s no gushing. There’s no flooding. There’s no lumps and bumps. No, there’s none of them. Your breasts haven’t done weird and wonderful things. Your face hasn’t broken out. You don’t have migraines. You don’t have your gut going mad. Nothing is going on. All that is happening is you’ve got a bloody discharge, which would have been a baby nest and it wasn’t needed this month. So it is not needed and you’re going to make another one in my case for 43 years minus the pregnancies and the breastfeeding and no pain, no feeling like everything’s falling out. No structure in total disorder. No having to go to bed because you can’t cope. Your energy is fine. If you are worn out by having a period, you’re obviously not able to bleed and why we have to fix that because you should be able to because we’re women. Carry about our normal business and not have to put a closed for business sign up for however long.
That is not normal. That is why women are stronger than men. They don’t have periods. We are not supposed to use them as an excuse. We are strong people and we are designed to bleed. Tap goes on. Tap goes off. End of story. We’re not exhausted. We’re not having major emotional breakdowns, none of that. So all of that means there’s something wrong to have a normal period. You have normal Qi and Blood circulation and production. Any of them wrong, you’re not going to have normal happen and you’re going to believe That’s how periods are because that’s all the women in your family and blah, blah, blah. The stories I have heard from people and I can give them my What Dads Can Do book and I go and look at Hot Blood because they’ve got a 23 day cycle. It’s hot blood. They’re bleeding too soon. That’s it. And they may not be in pure full hot blood any longer because they’ve worn themselves out and they’ve also got depleted blood. If their body is sensible, it would have stopped doing the bleeding, but who knows? That is your key questions about periods because that is the life monthly report of what’s going on.
Now, when I was teaching acupuncturists once, I had about 30 in the class and only about a third of them were women and six of them were either in anorexia, bulimia or had the very fine hair because they were still in that. They all were type A personalities. They were all very beautiful and they all thought they were no good. They would have mostly all been raped. They were all in a big mess and they were all kowtowing to men all the time and it was a goddamn mess. The men, on the other hand, thought I hated men. Why was that? Because, they were feeling a bit precious, weren’t they? Because I was telling it like it was. Now I was aware I had these women in this class and they were a mess and they were fawning around to the men all the time because that’s what they did and I’m sitting there being Heather going, they had no idea what being a woman was. The women did, most of their patients were going to be women and all of their textbooks were written by men and TCM is about men and their version of life. And so if we’re not going to ask awkward questions maybe about bleeding, there’s a problem because we have to know, I’m glad you found it, we have to know what bleeding is doing because that’s going to give us a readout roughly on what’s going on in their life. We ask how old they were when they started bleeding because that’s going to give us a rough idea on what’s been going on.
It should be two times seven. We are seven year cycles. It is quite often these days, six years old. And most young girls who are put in the spotlight because they’ve got different genetic biomarkers coming in will have their first period at least six months before they otherwise would have had they stayed with their own bloodline. That means that we are in a physical body and that physical body recognizes it can be impregnated. So it goes into puberty earlier than it otherwise would have. That is a problem in most blended families unless the man is totally integrated with his own being. So we have got, we’re not even going to talk about porn on the TV, not TV, internet.
We’re not talking about any of that. I’m talking about if somebody is bleeding too soon, too much, too fast, they are going to have massive issues. I’ve seen a lot of people, Josie, remember Josie? Josie’s 11 year old is bleeding. Her 11 year old is also being a bitch and will get a lot worse. Josie’s daughter should not be bleeding. When we’ve got all of the symptomology of hot blood, we are going to be stroppy, we are going to be so addicted to sugar, we are going to, oh, and Josie said she’s going to have much bigger breasts than me, poor bugger. That’s all the mercury that down through that family line will have had and, add in Josie’s mother-in-law is about to die because of course they’ve had many jabs and she’s got cancer that of course they’ve got more money than sense. Well, it’s not going to help, it’s not going to help. Of course they’re going to do everything, top of the range medical.
It’s not going to work, but all will lose the plot, her four children are upset already. So Josie’s stopped taking any more doula clients on, and I don’t know how that’s going to go on for because of course the mother-in-law and the father-in-law think it’s all fine, you just go and pay for treatment, it gets better, doesn’t it? But it won’t. They’ve been jabbed. So Josie’s got to deal with everything that’s going to go on with those children and that older daughter is already being awful/driven by Hot Blood with her younger siblings.
Now this is families. I think boys are easier. Anyway so that’ s women’s lives in a nutshell. We have got to ask questions about parents, we’ve got to work out that what happened to our mother while she was pregnant with us has got an awful lot to do with what’s going on with us now and we are at least half her. Not the genetics, but what was going on for her before we were two was happening for us and that was who we became. So making friends with the mother within, making peace with the mother within is a very good start to everything because a third of the impact of influences that ever happened to us happened before we were born and a half of them before we were two and two thirds of them before we were ten and it was mum.
Our mum wasn’t trying to be a damn nuisance. Mum had all of her own stories from her own mother and what was going on with the man in her life and and and and and. So here we are, it is going to reflect in our Liver energy and we are going to need more magnesium than you could ever poke a stick at. Which is why it’s sitting in the toilet, use it. Because our gut goes out, our gut goes out we can’t digest our food. We can’t stay sane, oh dear, because we’re not doing what I showed the woman today to do which is beat something with a towel. We need to be letting out what we’re smiling through because otherwise we’ll be dead or otherwise if we don’t go along with what’s going on. Which is not helpful for anybody in this day and age.