To the man who wants to be a dad.
Did you wonder why this is not happening at your place?
Maybe ask your oldest male friends/relations about life in fertile times – a few decades ago – sex was highly dangerous – whoopsies abounded – and prior to reliable contraception/ accessible abortion – that meant . . sex made babies.
Male fertility decline – fact
YOU can only make this baby once – when pregnant and possibly losing, or choosing to get scans (in case??) or in being fearful of the future – what are you doing?
When you take the time for the fountains – there is no need or checking – ‘in case’ – this is your baby insurance. Become as fertile as any stallions/ bulls – remake yourself into being prize stud.
PROBLEM SOLVING – why is it so??
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Where you are – sex not making babies:
Likely hot balls
Problem – where you are are – sex not making bedroom babies – sperm no good for the job
Outcome – Fertile as your great grandfather
Pathway – (How)? get out of the 21st century.
PLUS
Maybe cool rod – sexual interest may be diminished/capacity lessened
BBT either too low, or artificially up as the testes are cooking potential children
Gut/mood/life upsets
WHAT TO DO
1 – Clear the decks
Is this the life a baby would fit into?
A – More water, less damaging intake, clear time –
B – Get moving – daily base line +10.000 intentional steps daily
C – Exercise what will you do as well? (Time poor?? Get up at least 1 hour earlier (30 min run). Need to cull non-baby interests)
2 – Understand what causes babies
Sexual function is tied to fertility – fertility to health
Sexual function is tied to fertility – fertility to health
Q?? Sex still fun – as you were when met her?
Morning glory – and last as long as it did at 20 – PLUS feels more. Can go again.
A – Testosterone made in balls. How a boy is made. (From female template)
B – Your testicular history . . . hernias/accidents/hits/health insults (ask mum)
C – More touch between you both
Touch (connection) and partner time – bonding – take out what is not baby friendly in your lives – stop in and out and become playful. Means – what is in the way of this? How do you propose to be there and always present for her and bub if . .clear distractions. – And take a look at self and what you really want – and what you are prepared to do.
3 – Yang Qi – how to gauge/enhance
Changing gear – Instructions of the physical – Kidney Yang and what it does – how to improve
Why we take BBT – how and start NOW
A – Sleep more – Vit D3 and much magnesium topical
B – Remove cold – hard look at what elders said and did. In your life – what is leaking your Yang out?
C – Investigate multi orgasmic man info (ecstasy not ejaculation)
4 – Become your own farmer
Natural fertility detective – what else is in the way of bubs? Turn life /health around seriously – no need for ‘advice’ take out the C 20th.
What are you making your baby with? The pasture/soil – gut health
A – Input. Feed the machine – where is the fat, salt, protein, 9 cups of coloured veggies daily? Sugar /sweet taste still there?
B – Gut health? ‘Stress’? Life residue. Iodine on skin /saukraat
C – Energy boost – Exercise/BBT link Glutathione accelerator – cellular level.
5 – Jing Markers – what has changed?
Stepping up to (be) dad. They as a health report card will show up any specific issues we now need to focus upon. temps? Normalising?
Mini self detective. What has not changed? Now it is time to get into action
A – Serious look at life – habits/ addictions may now be showing up as moods and resistances. How did your late teens/early 20’s look – what can we do to undo this?
B – Clear out all toxins. Detox drops – ncd/fetal mining,
C – Cull out people/habits not baby friendly – what you are attracted to that is NOT baby friendly.
6 – Back to the past – life recipe.
What causes health? Not this life – see life 50 years ago and what was ‘normal’ then,
A – What has come up? What is too hard? If you had your 10 year old boy with you – what would you not want him to see you doing?
B – Find a way to undo feelings that may be coming up. Past outlet – Self medications – alcohol etc – what to do with these?
C – What is your goal in life – what do you want as a legacy for your children? Start being more conscious . .
7 – Re-calibrate – see how far you have come.
(Congratulate yourself – this is not the you of 6 weeks ago. Well done)
A – Accepting time – Changes you still want to make
B – List out what is not better yet (Jing Markers)
C – Check in with self – commitment time How sure are you that you want to keep going?
WHAT NEXT?
A – Life Recipe – and take the Selfing course/challenge
Half way there – takes 14 +weeks from beginning a sperm to out of you . .
B – Man up – who is to be this bubs’ father – what else needs to shift?
C – Get a new sperm test – whilst it takes this long apparently – I have seen stunning changes in this time – do not be disheartened if it is worse – it very often is as the body is getting sensible instructions and it is clearing up the dad-to-be – not making better sperm – YET.
REPEAT – from your new perspective.
All that was resisted before. .
More (being serious/going for broke)
Castor oil up anus nightly.
Chinese herbs to clear the liver heat/all life residue to then take sperm tonics.
Supplements – if gut is working – otherwise may not absorb – as were not with food chosen.
Contact Heather for individualised herbal and health assistance once you are on this road well.
Especially when we clear out YOUR womb wellness – your prostate