Welcome

What you are missing in this is all the conversations and sharings that were part of this group.
BOUNDARIES – 51 minutes
Why were you here as a woman, not a man? ME – I needed to have these women things happen to me – children
What would life have been like if I was in a different birth order? If my parents had not . . .


5.00 – Circumcision – great book on this here
7.00 – Beliefs – eg cancer
8.00 – AGREEMENTS – I statements only (Do not say “you make me feel’) We are responsible. And needed BARRIERS and DISCERNMENT – know when to trust . . so boundaries are through out their lives a trouble.

SORRY – WE WERE HAVING TECH ISSUES – YOU CAN’T HEAR THE BEEPING – it was distracting me
12.00 – my phone kept beeping . . POST your boundaries – see what I have done with parenting (‘The Law’)
Five elements is a way of seeing the world – as we observe it – one season in a day, a year, a life – follows sequentially
Maybe start reading books? See Slow Death By Rubber Duck and Our Stolen Future – there are so many telling us how we are being disrupted.

The entire life sequence follows LIFE cycles for everything

Instead of going though the sequence, with the learnings of each, and resting (the night time/winter of our lives) we want to force the bit we think we want – over and over . . and we do not GROW an dwe are feeling as th9ouhgg something is missing – yes it is – maturity comes from life understandings.

16.00 – ‘Falling in love’ – Shakespeare and Romeo and Juliet – Romeo fell in love with Rosalind first . . . using a tree as the analogy. Need REST
18.30 – list writing. Be very specific . . . and what I was wanting in my life = and then ask – would I be that one’s complement – we need to know what we are looking for. . .me and a car – colour ? YELLOW and manual not automatic gearing.
20.30 – Bat and ball analogy . .
22.00 – flitting/courting or . . .? We make choices based on ???
23.00 – What is ethics? What is ethics? My definition is biologically sustainable.
25.00 – What we expect of the medical ‘helper’s – eg now Canada and people offered death . .
26.30 – The now problem of only having those who got jabbed in the positions of ‘power’ . What are government for?
Total switch we are being NOT resistant enough. Case of woman raped all night for months by her father – at the age of TWO years of age. .
31.00 – our own project – who am I? – reminders . . .


34.00 – Mothers SING to your babies. children
35.00 – being a family – as the baby needs a village to grow in – for the village. Starts with dad lovingly preparing her body to birth
36.00 – Me reading one man’s explanation of how this work radically altered his and his children’s lives.
40.00- The Option Institute
41.00 – A case of definitions being held due to the early life – and her at 5th of 5 born one year apart and me eldest of 3 daughters born three years apart – explains a lot – POWER – means a very different thing for us.
42.00 – Hand me downs. .. forget about ‘brand’ names . . programmes – ‘it’s not fair’ – little girl lament.
45.00 – Unpacking the story . – and leave it behind
47.00 – Me as a 20 year old. .
50.00 – Action Cards page
2 – WOMEN’S BUSINESS – STEAMING 53 minutes
Steaming and how I did it in the clinic
3.30 – Anal steaming also – for anyone
4.30 – a case . . so helpful
9.00 -Lilly Rose was sitting on the steamer – and souded so much more normal, and was a great deal better.
10.00 – Me and what the steamer did for me. Facial and jaw injuries – many ties a day.
12.30 – Constipation and Scots grandmother – and also when else? Pregnancy?
13.30 – Andrea and steaming in day 4 after baby
14.30 – Miss Hortence and through the river.
16.00 – after rape and also to make it easier to have sex enjoyably
17.00 – 7 ‘L’s – and what men talk about hormones to label us – being women.
18.00 – Me reading out from the Arvigo self care manual (2016) – in my opinion we need to throw out all that is western male medicine based – as it is seen through men’s eyes totally – and on the RIGHT hand side of the page only NOT ONLY YONIS or gyne. .
LILLY – ROSE is sitting on the steamer – and her voice returned and she was so much better!!
23.00 – the tech issues are evident sometimes in my reactions . .
24.30 – Steaming a la Heather in my last clinic Lemon myrtle . . and Surinam
28.00 – When not? and resistances . . .and why are we stopping healing for ourselves?
29.00 – Me with Interstitial cystitis. Why use magnesium topically
31.30 – needing to keep adding the magnesium – as it is not FIXED but managed well – and we will thus not break our hips. . .
I don;t want to meets “You Have To . .”
Procrastination and objections

Thus we have the Challenge – as we need to CHANGE
36.00 – Telling yourself – and a deaf woman’s brilliant solution of this.
39.00 – growing a third testicle – and two men with their stories. . .
39.30 – What are we waiting for? -do it!!
40.00 – Reikian armour bands – this is I feel the most important aspect of GENTLING – undoing these – but without the emotional abreactions . .- Reikian structure beginnings also .. see what one worker has developed on this
41.00 – Me becoming an Arivgo Self Care teacher . .and how we modeled this.


Hoe we hold our body and how we hold our emotions. Character structures are are organisations of resistance with which individuals avoid facing their neuroses. We hold it in the body and now it can’t work properly. The Body Remembers Everything That Happens To It. And thus affects a dissociation or amnesia of the event. We all have this happens. Time does not heal, we keep covering it over.
Please look at your Selfing manual for more – or here (Characterology)
46.30 – Shamanic dearmouring – it works – FREE YOURSELF
48.00 – Gentle Bioenergetics – and why I do not use breath with the moves.
50.00 – We can LET IT GO – we all store stuff within.
52.00 – Why we have tools and why we do Selfing first – we are our first recipient . .
Please turn volume up and FEEL these heartful women
3 – PESAR – grief – 33 minutes
START – Held in the lungs – but women discharge anger with tears.
2.00 – Earthquakes and their aftermath
3.30 – Causes in children.
4.40 – We have been over loaded recently. Stuck Liver Qi – Lilly-Rose – Sighing queen.
8.00 – ALL of us – and handing it over to the next generation . .
9.00– I got distracted and did a lot of talking . .
9.30 – At the 2020 breakdown of life – we all needed all of this to help ourselves.
11.00 – The action cards came from my life . . Do the thing you resist the most FIRST – all else falls away – life gets so much easier.

12.00 – CHANGE – and resistances – water – needs to be pure
13.00 – Also air filtration – esp now they are sky painting/earthly pest control
14.00 – My mum dying and my brother-in-law visits hospital and we later have a talk about me hands-on . .My dying story
21.00 – Kept breathing as the anima was programmed – Karen – Anne Quinlan story’s body alive, no one home.
24.00 – Dave’s story – another version of no one home.
25.30 – UFO stories – some I have heard . .
27.00 – This has not been your story maybe – but it was her’s and who do you talk with?
29.00 – We have no idea what is in the future and we can’t use what was programmed in for our use – generations ago no longer applies.
30.00 – We all need to be as clear as we could possibly be.
31.00 – We all need to wake up and clean up and be grateful and get ready.
Reminder – in the class we had to much happening so the meditations are here and ideally before you do the next section, you take at least the Bao Mai reconnecting meditation for yourself.
4 – WOMB WORRIES – 1 hour 9 minutes
Please do then Bao Mai and ancestor retrieval meditations first . .
See more here – so many options to work through – I will eventually get these into only one to listen to . .
2.30 – Talking biology – those of the population who went through the 7 year cycles as they were set in the woman mold – to mature and create monthly baby nests.


5.00 – LEFT – my rendition of a body
RIGHT – Scars I was confronted by in clinic in the late 70’s/80’s prior to the keyhole surgeries.
Scarred bellies needed their Q unblocked. to the laser and laproscopic surgeries.
8.00 – The Unblocking Your Scar workshop – flows have to flow. Scar workshop for practitioners available soon (Pricklies)
8.30 – Hormones? Or a monthly health report – periods .. .

It becomes worse and then you have CONGESTION – of blood and also fluids and eventually all is dammed up
Worse in the case of the young girl who was beaten regularly by her dad – tied to the bed – all those ex-bruises would also be creating Stuck Qi – for thr rest of her life – and of course ‘PTSD’.
14.00 – Creation of adenomyosis (extreme Stuck Blood) – Drs are ‘baffled’; and know you can’t have it without estrogen – so they posit that as a cause

17.00 – My little finger ligament damage and the Chinese patches (Yunnan Bao Yao) to fix it
18.00 – What we use Blood energy for in the body (essential to have easy periods)

20.00 – Welcome to your lady bits – and the female pelvis
21.30 – Size of the womb and what happens when she is in right/not wrong position – all flows freely
22.30 – Positions of the uterus – she could be anywhere but ideally as here
Slightly forwards sitting above the bladder, no pressure on it, no adhesions so easily sliding and gliding as the peritoneal membrane is optimally working





Seen diagrammatically

27.00 – How to fix – castor oil to assist undoing adhesions and also clearing out the endo
28.30 – Retroversion
29.00 – Bartholin’s cyst is utter misery. Ask how I can assist you if this is you as it is easy when you do the right combinations of how to help yourself.
29.30 – Different grades of prolapse
33.00 – My familial prolapsing issues
36.00 – Family eating – great stress . . and cold in my body . .
37.30 – Vegan raw/macrobiotic hit in belly .
38.00 – 2 litres of yoghurt with 6 Tsp of nutritional yeast – and lose my milk after Hep A.
40.00 – Weight goes on – and again. Wrong food offered first baby ..
42.30 – Blood transfusion with ice packs x 2
44.00 – In co ordinate labour – dying baby
45.00 – Prolapsed bladder
46.00 – Prolapsed uterus fixed .
47.30 – Inner operation .. to repair the inner hernias. .
48.30 – Incident with ankle – thus eventual C section .
51.00 – Why C section? Subchoronic hematoma
54.00 – Vegan pregnant woman – womb almost hanging out ..
56.00 – We won . . . baby C section 39 weeks.
57.00 – Why me woman? To go through all of this?
59.00 – What Happened To Me and What I Did About It – to be written
1.01.00 – take out toxins .. and why are you woman?

From here we move onto the SELFING CHALLENGE – how we break habits by changing (with support from our group) weekly . .
First thing to do is review the online courses that preceded this downloading with me and print out the Soothing 28 day spreadsheet, and do all of it
and note your exceptions. resistances., objections and general DON’T WANT TO’s as these are running your life.