Welcome – THIS IS BIRTHING CENTRIC

We move on from Reconnecting into Mammalian Maternity and the moves – focusing in finally – clearing STUCK away so the womb is free as intended.
I put what we did in the first day here – as it is then all pregnancy on one page – so when I talk of what we are doing – bear that in mind please.

In the morning – I got ahead of myself as I was triggered to do so by preparing
seeing what I was putting on the page before

Many different pregnancy /birth stories
And how it matters – accept no limitations (of others).

This led us into empowered bonded birthing.

We had Priscilla in the afternoon to use as a body model.

prior to this – Marg was on the table. . .

Empowered Bonded Birthing :
Midwiving the mother – who takes that baby home?

Audios – #Fri 2 (1st Dec) 10.35

Birthing a family, birthing a mother from the maiden and HE has to be there to look after here – DAD – where is the red tent . .
‘Used uterus brigade’ – need to empower the couple and the family – to look after. .
When it is then someone else turn – it will be a ‘pay it forwards;’
E.g. Japanese families. .
We may have to undo the betrayal – is why we have Kaliana’s drops . ..Grandmothers . . we sit back horrified. .

Are they bonded ? As a couple – where is the bonding? What are they birthing?
FORGING RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE WHO TRUST US.
People will ask s us because they want to know . .

Audios – #Fri 2 (1st Dec) 8.22

Audios – 2 What is a safe birth?
Bottom circle – survival of the fittest – we are destroying this – and keep accelarating this.
A mammal births a mammal – not independent – primate – clutched onto.
Mum is too wounded ot do this. .
Alive is no definition of safe. .
Safe is best possible – and with best outcome – baby goes from inside mum to outside mum – no jabs, baby is safe in mum;s arms. .
Vaccination and Rhesus monkeys – and (they do not convert Vit C).

WHAT IS SAFE?

SAFE – is primal instinctual . ..circles – the middle circle is human/social – the bottom is the biology . .

Baby comes out – and bonded with fear, horror – st its breathing blood – cardiac Dr Shen – broken baby . ..
Pericardium function – change over – in sacred space – baby does not need to breathe mum’s support system – mum is resus unit. .
DO not break mum . .

Me – natural birthing nazi – when had first child – hence WDCD and this – why I did this – as a young mum . .
Agenda – break maternal bonding . . . then get what is happening to the youngsters – need a defiant fierce mum.
Safe -0 needs to be mammalian birthing – not ‘whatever you think doctor’ . .
Go to top circle – that kid to chose to come to that mum – maybe we need to look at the one who called her in.

Audios – #5 after lunch (1st Dec) – 21.46

Audios – 4 WHAT IS A PERSON?

Josh’s shock at about 6 weeks old – and there is the blue line is there – shock – not ‘sugar mark’.
So man things happen . .take Kaliana’s drops.
Taking a pulse – listening to the heart lament . . me ad taking pulses . . .
Me in AIDS conference – San Francisco – and Dr Angela Shen’s locations. .
Me- 1999 Acupuncture in the New Millennium taking pulses in Dr Shen’s workshops . .

Triage – then work out what needs doing . . .
At least treat six times – need to be calmer ..

Cases – sarcoma and irradiation dog walker. Also young girl set alight.
How did they get to where they are? Individual. .

TREAT THEM WHERE THEY ARE

People are STUCK in all sorts of incidents –
What we are to do – all the moves. . . see the pelvic anatomy page FIRST

Audios – #says empowered b4 (1st Dec) 14.54 minutes

After working in my body – we are back to empowered bonded birthing . .
Childbirth education came in in teh 70’s – 80s, before the scans and the fetal monitoring – thus dads were in the way as the woman was walking about – on the bed, no need for dads!!!!
WHAT is a ‘safe’ birth -with woman – not with the hospital .. . and its ‘needs’
Ask what sort of mother would you like to be??
Older midwife -where is she? The bottom circle – keep the species going . .where are the resilient bubs?needs to open pelvis
All cultures knew – look after mum as she makes more tribal members. . .
Sustainability – what was support in the late 70’s/80’s for mums – tied oral cavity not a problem so much (folic acid messing with all with MTHFR)?
Mastitis – and how that happens . . .
Breech . . what to do Breech . . need to open pelvis Need WDCD even more now than when written
Pelvic opening workshops – 3 or 6 hours – as can bond them – look at my uni assignment (in email) for more
PROTECTION – where is it – go back to the of definition of SAFE
Case of babies dying – after W.C. vaccine and also bub damaged after Hep B jab, unwanted whilst mum in shower (betrayal 0 who owns the baby)?
People want CARE care – and are cashed up and need YOU
Energy follows thought – as they are focused on what needs to be cleared – not that they know that is how/why it is happening . .

CAREER PATH ?
HOW ARE YOU GOING TO USE THIS?

SELFING has to happen as we all need to undo STUCK – and then may wish to go forwards .

HAVE to find those who will listen and do. WDCD? He is the one who could lose the most . .
Will write the Gift of the C Section . . PLUS I am the broken baby from the broken mother. .
Reconnecting the Bao and Dai and Mai – need to confront and be growing not COMFORTABLE

Audios – VOICE 006 (1st Dec) 1.58 minutes

KRYSTAL – Lett’s procedure and the cervix .

What to do – prior to pregnancy – instead of Lett’s and now in pregnancy – wanting to birth well . .

Elke’s warts . . . not sure where I will find this easily – later – genital warts and how it was resolved. .

PREGNANCY NAUSEA/VOMITING/H.E.

Audios – JADE 1 (1st Dec) 20.03 minutes

Jaaden asked for help for H.E. preventatively. . .

JAADEN’s story: she wrote to me . .
I was born 6 weeks early and taken to NICU for a few days – I was the first child – My mum was not well when pregnant, overweight and lived off chocolate haha – I had septacemia (blood poisoning) as a child from reoccurring kidney infections (scaring left on one kidney) – I had my first period at 8 years old and had awful cycles as a teenager – on the pill by 12 (have been off it for 8-9 years now) – extreme pain, irregular bleeding, blood clots, fatigue, etc. – diagnostic surgery in 2015 for endometriosis (not found) but removed cysts from one of my fallopian tubes – 5 surgeries for a choledochal cyst the size of a small newborn baby – they attempted to drain it multiple times and a similar treatment like sclerotherapy, last one a major surgery to remove it in 2016 – I had an abortion a few weeks prior to the major surgery at drs recommendation they didn’

t know what the cyst was at the time and considered it potentially life threatening to carry a baby if the cyst burst – that pregnancy was terminated approximately 7 weeks with hyperemesis – long history of mental health illness – OCD, generalised anxiety, health anxiety, depression, post partum depression/anxiety (including intrusive thoughts and suicidal thoughts) – did a range of hypnosis/NLP type treatment and have been able to manage my mental health better since – surgery in 2018 for tooth abcess following wisdom tooth removal and awful infection – colonoscopy recently (2nd in last 5 years) for bowel symptoms (my mum has chrohns disease) such as daily diarreoh, I go up to 6 times a day, pains, cramping, some blood in stool at one point – I was gluten free for 5 years during all these health problems and found that did help some of my symptoms (been told I have an intolerance) – 2 miscarriages – one in 2016 another in 2020 – the 2016 pregnancy was very early stages, the 2020 miscarriage I had hyperemesis and knew the moment I miscarried as the nausea/vomitting stopped prior to me knowing I had miscarriaged – my daughter was conceived the cycle after the 2020 miscarriage – had severe hyperemesis her whole pregnancy – had daily fluids from a nurse in my home from 10-18 weeks – had early stages of pre-eclmapsia near the end and high blood pressure throughout the pregnancy – extreme pelvic girdle pain (unable to walk) – c section – unable to do much in my pregnancy apart from rest and was on a range of medications daily – post partum experienced severe mastitis – needed 14 drainage procedures and 9 weeks of intense antibiotics including 1 week hospitalised for intravenious antibiotics – pushed through breastfeeding despite recommendations against it – still breastfeeding- my daughter is 3 in March – no alcohol for last 4 years – never smoked/taken drugs (apart from marijuana twice (just being honest!) – i admit i am not healthy, i don’t exercise regularly and i know my weight and diet can be improved (I am motivated to change this) – my husband and i started trying for our second baby the last 2 months – I struggle with fatigue almost daily, and especially around my cycle. I get dizzy spells and migraines right before my period and suffered this through pregnancy too – While avoiding hyperemesis is my main goal right now, I am interested in a full overhaul of my health. I don’t feel good considering I’m 28 years old. I struggle to run around with my daughter in the backyard. – I’m currently recovering from a torn ligament in my ankle, if that’s at all relevant haha
Gosh, putting this all together makes it sound so awful. I promise I also have a nice life and good things happen I just wanted to try capture all the major issues I’ve had in my lifetime.

Gluten free was somewhat helpful . . Hyperemesis – 2 miscarriages . .
Extreme girdle pain, 9 lots of mastitis . .IV AB . in hospital. Trying to now (3rd month ) to get pregnant. 28 years old.
These women are NOT given health care – team of helpers. . .need a G.W. practitioner. . (I have a transcript of all of this).

If a vegan cold ,raw and sweet – can’t help her Spleen Qi if the body is being wrecked.
Migraines – all through her life – pre periods.. why having a period at 8? Excema lower back pain – and high BP in pregnancy
Sore heels in walking – anxiety, depression, fainting spells – since she got covid – dizziness severe since having covid.
C section – apparently bug baby 36 weeks – eating gluten++ coke zero . .binge eats ..
On pill at 12. Regular after baby – excessive bleeding – cranky,irritable all the time bladder infections last 2 years. .
Always tired . . . very bad post partum and could not hold baby (failure to breathe easily) .
what she needs. . – someone to mother her . .

TRIAGE – calm her down

Get the Arvigo form and observe me and how I handle all of this. .
NO Informed consent . Sp 1 – stop bleeding Sp 4 – get placenta out. .

Audios – # (1st Dec) 8.18 minutes

WHAT H DID – 4 births . . .and how to help in labour

Esp last one – and how I was to have a home birth – but life intervened . .
Vicky was to be my midwife and the hospital could do the baby interface . . .
How it happened that I had the C section – and me looking after myself . .
Me using what was needed in births – Bach flowers. . . change emotional state in labour is transformed . .
Sign them up for an easy pregnancy – easy birth – easy breastfeeding – easy baby
How often to see them when I was natural pregnancy support carer – ensuring normal – be their go to person – really what I would have expected the midwife would do . . .and the process of writing WDCD – forgot there was diabetes to manage. .
Back in time – all knew how to live well, and ensure perfect.

WHAT TO DO ( WHAT H DID)

AUDIO SAT 1 – 9.31 minutes

Non present ob . . and was OP and he did not notice . . .
I created the OP – Kathryn coming at 29 weeks – then the inco-ordinate labour – full facial presentation . .
TRAUMA? No I was in on all decisions – it was MY life!!
O.P – did not go into overdrive – and what Ob said – lucky? No – we were assisting the child extraction in addition to his being there.
Then we segue to the O.P. baby ripped around. . .

AUDIO Nat birthing Evie – 20.00.44 minutes

$1,000 birth – Bl 67 – and bub turned from OP in the birth canal. . .
after me full on from 11..30 am and bub birth when I left 8.30 – as I had to go to work . .
Bl 67 – tweedled at another O.P. birth – and again bub turned – 5 minutes of me on that needle – she did not feel it . .
Nat’s baby’s birth – large story including pelvic dystocia – baby stuck in mum’s pelvis. .
Including how I got to be stuck in Australia. .
The reason we look at what sets it up – as this needs addressing as instructions are still telling the physical what to do
Melanie – being trained as an obstetric nurse . .

Audios – Kim’s baby (2nd Dec) 6.06 minutes

Breech died and what next historically – see H

Audios – Penny’s birth (2nd Dec) 11.32 minutes

A breech that taught all of us a lot – baby fine

Audios – LEFT OR RIGHT (2nd Dec) 9.55 minutes

Baby positioning and why it matters

Audios – Hayley’s baby (2nd Dec) 1.58 minutes

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