Welcome
Common story . .
Demonstrates why the Gentling Way is needed. .
Why C section – and the story around that
AND what set this up?
Did you come here to grow up differently/learn from??
Maybe also see this page – has how it is done .. .
C section – (if you MUST have one)
How did we get here?
2.00 – Why?
3.30 – why/how the ‘botched’?
5.40 – M straight to C section as mum is now traumatic – how is birthing to flow?
6.20 – Gaylenes’ story . . see eBook Fetal Positioning Solutions) – what is ‘dating’?
10.30 – do not ‘need’ spinning babies’ . .
11.00 – Market for WDCD? Broken from the first /another birth (my grand children as an example)
12.00 – ‘Emergency C section’s are usually orchestrated. . . NOT SAFE – C section to have if you must have one at all . .
12.50 – at least TWENTY jabs at WHAT? Cervix? Husband stopped them eventually . .
15.30 – What to do instead – if we need to change bub’s position – preparation . .
17 – How did we set this up? Fever – not drinking enough – Mums leave as hospital life is NOT supportive
king enough, and in trauma and ?? GBS? and nothing optimal.
18 – And epidural – so baby can’t NOT get distressed.
19.30 – NOT medical care – as opposed to what my mother got in NZ 67 years ago . .
21 – Need to feed mum so she makes great milk . . – and retrieves herself. BLOOD energy
22.00 – Need a sane mother Mad mama presentation. This work is so needed!
23.00 – What set this up? Earlier life . .
Need vibrational and all Kalina’s Rose’s remedies and all we have done – GENTLING
Start with WDCD – Qi moving and Triage and the Soothing moves from the Selfing online course.
25.30 – Need also to undo – why there was insignificant continuity of care – for mum – surround sound of tribal loving tending.
NOT MEDICAL
My scribe wrote (very grateful to Rainey)
Triage – calm the Shen
SBB – (prickies – ) instantly felt more sensation Belly moves Peritoneal untangler #1 and a pull up “WOW” after P.U #2 – Big release felt like lightening (second one felt big and she thought the first one did!) prior to adhesion breaking needles, she still felt wonky.. now can fully feel the pull up more up the top, feels opened but tender. needles out- so much better.. open and calm. (felt tight and hot before) P.U #3 Felt big bounce up and all felt unstuck Jelly belly – Now can’t even remember when it felt that good last!! ; since birth has never been able to feel the scar until now did a wee. first time since birth has been able to empty bladder fully, always had a tightness (was never able to fully empty).
Shen, pull out cold, scars. UPJ (Kidneys) sacrum work – “WOW” feels more in balanced and aligned – more blood flow
Pull up after sacrum work – feels no more tightness, energy coming up instead of feeling like a roadblock.
‘Gosh, feels so different’
Adhesion breaking – Feels so happy and open.. can feel all the energy flowing all the way up to the stomach, all the heat and pain gone. (do castor oil to calm down after the work) Heather said ” first thing to do is fertilize the lot . need the ingredients (plants/people etc) ( when talking about how Bree’s scar nearly broke open when doing adhesion breaking)
Ovarian whirlpool then did pull up – feels light, open and pain free
Uterine Rake
Taking leg for a walk – felt amazing.. not holding tightness after and can go a lot deeper under the pubic bone now and she can feel.it right through to her coccyx. Heather said ” Can’t teach people that already have their cup full!” after all this so far she said all feels so much more open and springy – I could see the difference in her belly (skin tone, not holding as much tension etc) looks flatter and calmer? Water and salty snack break then onto soothers (belly moves jiggle jiggle etc)
Going through triage again to recap ( calm, heel moxa/sacral fan, S.L.Q. R. soothers checkers (pull up) clearing (lymph etc) Settle (hug, Reiki) Fixer (the moves) More checkers, clearers, soothers whatever is needed. then settling because a lot has been brought up. now feels fresh and loose – better than the old me! never felt this good letting go of stuff didn’t even know was there G.B moves (holding hatred/ bitterness/resentment)
Mentioned how she got electrocuted in 2017 – diaphragm separated from muscles against it and pectoral muscles separated all after rape in 2010 4 gates after accident recall to settle everything.
Reminder . .. from 2005 – WDCD package as Easy Pregnancy Resources/Solutions
This scar has had me work on it substantially – for a few years – she volunteered to come in.
Her (ex) husband nearly knocked out the ‘butcher’ who created this mess.
Look for ‘mother assisted C section’ online
The C section you have if you have to have one
Above is what I did up for those who are resistant to baby being cut out and in their arms because a ‘normal ‘ birth is needed.
When Nothing Else is Working, You Haven’t Seen Heather
To say that the birth of my first baby was traumatic does not begin to describe what my husband and I went through in the hospital system. After medical incompetence that lead to an emergency c-section I was heartbroken and shattered, emotionally and physically, but at the time could only focus on the relief I felt holding my healthy little boy in my arms.
It was in the weeks and months that followed that my body finally allowed itself to begin feeling the shock, pain, and grief that I went through. I experienced intense, crippling pain around my scar site and womb for over a year and a strong inflammatory heat radiating through my vagina and abdomen. I was prone to sleeplessness due to constant discomfort, and was absolutely certain I would never have another baby and put myself through that trauma again (despite my husband and I initially wanting another). The thought of being intimate with it leading to conception was terrifying.
I saw physiotherapists, chiropractors, osteopaths, and masseuses to try and ease some of my physical symptoms. I spent thousands of dollars. Nothing worked. There was zero relief of any symptom, and I had a heavy, hopeless feeling in my chest knowing that this was my new normal, that I would have to get used to feeling this pain. It was at this point, where I had essentially given up on healing, that I had the opportunity to meet Heather Bruce.
Immediately upon meeting Heather I felt safe and at ease. After a mere handful of gentle questions I felt wracking sobs come upon me and I was taken into a warm embrace that led the flow for the remainder of our session. Through her several decades of experience I trusted to fully release myself into the care of Heather, and it has been the most miraculous and life changing thing I could have possibly done for myself. Through her gentling way, my body responded. I relaxed, opened up, and trauma that I had been holding not just from childbirth but for years was released through her gentle hands. Her soft tones walked me through each step of the way, and I felt as nurtured as if Heather was my own mother. I could feel the heat leaving my body and the pain fading away. To this day, months later, I am pain free after a single session. My husband and I are intimate again. We are considering our second baby and I look towards this without fear. “What would Heather say?” is our new favourite phrase in our house and I feel incredibly blessed to have been fortunate enough to cross paths with this incredible woman. I cannot recommend her enough, and if you hold any doubt in seeing Heather I can guarantee they will immediately fade the moment you meet her. With love, Bonny
Continued Healing
Scar workshop partial testimonial
After a traumatic C-section which led to over a year of physical and emotional pain and the miraculous healing that followed from meeting Heather Bruce, I have continued my healing journey by undertaking Heather’s course “Unlocking Scars”. At this point, I am halfway through and already can say with absolute certainty that it’s worth doing. I love it! The modules are bite sized pieces of information with videos that give you clear, simple, and easy to follow instructions and guides to continue your own journey in healing without any overwhelm. Heather’s experience shines through and by already implementing only the first few steps I have noticed a huge difference in my overall health and wellbeing and a continuation of the healing around my C-section scar and various other scars I have collected over the years. With some modules only 2 minutes long, it’s easy to work through whenever I have a moment throughout the day without feeling like I need to sit and dedicate an afternoon to the learning with a toddler in the house.
